4. Don’t be a bad kisser.
Kissing sets the tone. A kiss communicates desire and excitement without words. If your kissing falls flat, you’re starting the experience on shaky ground.
5. Show care and enthusiasm.
Intimacy isn’t about treating your partner like an object. Approach it with warmth, attentiveness, and genuine excitement—it makes all the difference.
6. Communicate wisely, but sparingly.
Yes, some verbal connection is helpful, but it should enhance—not interrupt—the flow. Keep words short and meaningful rather than carrying on conversations.
7. Be an excellent kisser.
Reinforcing the earlier point: a great kiss builds momentum and sets the stage for everything that follows.
8. Be generous in giving.
Don’t focus solely on your own satisfaction. Prioritize your partner’s pleasure as much as your own—aim to bring them along for the full experience.
